You're not alone, especially with Covid impacting how people are thinking about life these past few months.
I myself have been having something of a crisis of identity with where I live, which is kind of similar. I live in Toronto and I live here very much for the amenities, but honestly looking back, even before Covid I wasn't exactly hitting up the clubs or going to shows or anything at all really with any sort of regularity. Really I'm just paying a super high cost of living to... sit in my basement apartment playing video games.
I'm super lucky to have a reasonable rent, around HALF of what some of my peers are paying right now, and that's been a sticking point for moving. But even so, I can make pretty decent money working purely remotely; I could easily buy a house NOT in Toronto and have the whole place to make my own "man cave" of my dreams, etc., and for a fraction of the cost of living here. It definitely has me rethinking a lot lately.
I've even considered moving to another country (e.g. Scotland, Ireland, Sweden, somewhere "exotic" (to me)). It's tough though cuz my wife likes to be close to family. But at the same time we see them maybe twice a year to be honest. We could easily buy a great house in another country and STILL be well enough off that we could fly her family over (or ourselves fly back to Canada) for again a fraction of the cost of living in Toronto.
It's tough to have these talks during Covid though, as it's like... hard not to feel stuck.
All that to say...
I feel ya, brother.